Hi Bill. I have enjoyed looking at the website; hope
this is the right email to send this to, as I don't want the guys to
"win":
Ann Gerstenberger forced
me to attend the 30th year reunion by sending me an airline ticket, and Dave
(Duck) Farnam was about the only one who recognized
me there so this bio may go unnoticed (and I had imagined I was popular in high
school) At that reunion, Duck said, "I will always love you and good luck
with your two stroke engine," which reflects on the level of intrigue in
my life. We lost Ann to cancer a few years ago and I miss her
life-long friendship every day. Without her to drag me, I won't be making the
trip to Pittsburgh for the gathering.
I left Mt Lebanon, (quite happily! too
urban!) to waitress in Seaside Heights, NJ, (what was I thinking!) then
went to college in Missouri where I messed around. I married the next
year, moved back to Jersey, then back to Missouri, where I had a kid,
divorced husband and his fraternity brothers, remarried and had more kids, some
in the back room of the general store where we sold mostly dog food, ice, and
Red Man Chewing Tobacco in a tiny town with one fire hydrant. I settled in the
deep woods of Missouri as a sincere, back-to-the-land-and-set-my-soul-free
member of the hippie New World Order. I started working as an underground
midwife and a pretend nurse in alternative healthcare, divorced, married again,
and had more kids. I delivered a bazillion home born babies,
many by kerosene lantern among the rural Mennonite communities as I lobbied for
legality for midwives, wrote op-ed pieces, rallied, protested and, in
short, got political.
Four years political activist = burnout.
When I divorced again, (damn! why
did I keep picking left handed alcoholics?)
I changed my name since I had the judges attention anyway and, too old to
be a Barbie, settled on "Ivy" after several quirky experimental
trials. Certified Professional Midwives became sort of legal in Missouri in the late 2000's and I
got an executive director gig for a not-for-profit birth
center and eventually opened my own practice in Columbia, Mo. I've done a bit
of traveling and have worked as: a goat herder/milker
and on the artisanal cheese maker crew, a properties manager, barista, nursery
school teacher, medical assistant, free-lance writer, muralist, model, modest
chicken farmer, aerobics instructor, battered women's shelter worker, dark room
specialist for the sheriff's department....all sorts of things to bolster
income from soulful but financially wanting midwifery, and to feed all those
kids.
I finally got my bachelor's degree but I am not
sure why. A few years back I met an excellent (right handed, tea-totaler) man who was still deep in the Missouri woods,
living his own version of the hippie dream for 40 years, and I hitched my wagon
to his star, but he died soon after. So I've taken a year to rest, read, and
hunt mushrooms while living a lovely hermit life in his one room, 200 year old
log cabin near the Missouri river with a dog. And Wi-Fi.
My kids are very funny and interesting
people, among them Missouri's State Securities Commissioner, an environmental
activist in Las Cruces, New Mexico, an EMT and
nightclub bouncer in Austin, Texas, a musician & bread baker
extraordinaire, a cook/artist and, I suspect, anarchist, and one free spirit who
laughs all the time and is enthusiastic about everything hula-hoops, and doing
that in India as I write. Go figure: there are only 3 grandkids from this bunch,
but they are excellent ones. Next year I am slated to teach midwifery and
deliver babies in Atiak, Uganda. I have ordered a cd
on how to speak Swahili from the library, just in case I run across folks who
don't know that English is the official language there, and think I should have
paid attention when Bill Coyne tried to teach me Swahili in 1972.
I hope you all have a blast at the
reunion. Ivy Case (at one time Barbara Buerklin)